{"id":2127,"date":"2024-09-03T04:03:18","date_gmt":"2024-09-02T19:03:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/203.170.86.202\/wildeden.com.au\/news\/?p=2127"},"modified":"2024-09-18T00:50:23","modified_gmt":"2024-09-17T15:50:23","slug":"all-my-success-and-how-to-imitate-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/soul-food\/for-thought\/2024\/all-my-success-and-how-to-imitate-it\/","title":{"rendered":"All &#8216;my&#8217; success and how to imitate it&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today I was thinking: \u2018what have I actually achieved in life\u2019 and a few things came to mind\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I:\u00a0<br \/>Turned $8 into $200,000 in less than 4 years (I started with a $8 TV from the tip)<br \/>Started and ran my own business, doing what I loved with no loan or capital (sold parts off my Torana after a high speed chase left me on crutches, which grew into a full time business)<br \/>Avoided jail despite breaking the law incessantly, getting raided repeatedly and being charged a number of times (including from high up cops lying in court to try to put me away)\u00a0<br \/>Survived a number of fairly serious injuries, severe chronic pain and health issues<\/p>\n<p>When I look back at all these \u2018successes\u2019, they are all simply indicators of living a life with wrong priorities. I bought in to the lie our culture shouts, that:\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>\u201cdoing whatever you want, doing what makes you feel good, getting rich, living for yourself, results in happiness &#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Nothing could be further from the truth\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Trouble with the police, chronic pain, injuries and health issues were all due to my lifestyle. Determined to survive &amp; make money I was relentless and pushed my body too far and too hard.\u00a0<br \/>Using drugs &amp; alcohol did make me feel better &#8211; for a little while. Social use quickly spiralled into addiction, leading to more problems with the police.\u00a0<br \/>My need for acceptance and gratification continually controlled my decisions. \u00a0<br \/>Discontent, disillusioned, depressed and eventually suicidal, my life was a hopeless mess with no outlook for any type of future.<\/p>\n<p>Determined to end all the pain, at the very last hour I finally relented and looked objectively to see \u2018God\u2019 was there\u2026 I read the Bible with an open mind for the first time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>To cut a long story short, God revealed that He is there\u2026 He convicted me of my sin and opened my eyes &amp; heart to His love and the fact atet He will judge everyone.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Everything from that point changed *big time*!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This new life with Jesus was completely different &#8211; His priorities were the exact opposite of what mine had been for 20+ years.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He instantly changed some of my desires, but others I had (and have) to work on. I fail repeatedly and am far from where I would like to be, but the outcome of God\u2019s priorities is mind blowing\u2026\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Since then, my list of contains *actual* successes:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I started to genuinely care for other people and was able to forgive people for their past actions against me.\u00a0<br \/>I was able to move on &amp; deal with issues arising from growing up in an\u00a0abusive cult.\u00a0<br \/>Heavy addictions to alcohol, illicit and prescription drugs among other things were no longer an issue.\u00a0<br \/>Married to the same woman for 20 years (and counting) I have been able to be supporting and relatively selfless. \u00a0<br \/>Raised 6 children with a wide variety of talents, good morals and individuality.\u00a0<br \/>Designed &amp; physically built our own house (currently 90% finished)\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>There are likely more successes, but the common theme:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><i>I can claim ZERO credit for any of them\u2026\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The only reason I have accomplished any of them? &#8211; Jesus!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He has used all my feeble efforts. Despite my inability, even with all my failures, parts of my life actually reflect *good*! How amazing is that? If He can change someone like me, He can change you too!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Put Him first, follow Him &#8211; live life with His priorities: He will *never* let you down!\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><em>A man\u2019s heart has only enough life in it to pursue one object fully.<\/em><br \/><em>C. S. Spurgeon<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>We will fail Him, we will never measure up to His (or even our own) standard, friends &amp; family will abandon or even attack us. <br \/>It is difficult, but as we follow Him, He promises to direct our path. He will give us peace, love and joy despite the trials &amp; persecution\u2026and of course He gives us eternal life!! #thankYouJesus<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" title=\"Godly Priorities Jesus first spouse children ministry distractions BOLD.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/203.170.86.202\/wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Godly-Priorities-Jesus-first-spouse-children-ministry-distractions-BOLD-1.jpg?resize=908%2C600\" alt=\"Godly Priorities Jesus first spouse children ministry distractions BOLD\" width=\"908\" height=\"600\" border=\"0\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>Lord, please help us to put Your people, Your goals, Your commandments first. Help us to devote our time &amp; energy in to Knowing you, loving You, honouring You, worshipping You and sharing You with others. Help us to put our time &amp; effort in to loving \/ submitting to our spouse, discipling our children and serving You in the community. Have Your Way in us.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I was thinking: \u2018what have I actually achieved in life\u2019 and a few things came to mind\u2026\u00a0 I:\u00a0Turned $8 into $200,000 in less than 4 years (I started with a $8 TV from the tip)Started and ran my own business, doing what I loved with no loan or capital (sold parts off my Torana after a high speed chase left me on crutches, which grew into a full time business)Avoided jail despite breaking the law incessantly, getting raided repeatedly and being charged a number of times (including from high up cops lying in court to try to put me &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2138,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[18,50,49,48],"tags":[70,69],"class_list":["post-2127","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-for-thought","category-homeschool","category-marriage-significant-other","category-parenting","tag-finances","tag-homeschool"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Godly-Priorities-Jesus-first-spouse-children-ministry-distractions-BOLD.jpg?fit=2240%2C1480&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pasDCW-yj","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2127","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2127"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2127\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2140,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2127\/revisions\/2140"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2138"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2127"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2127"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wildeden.com.au\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2127"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}